To wear this wedding dress, first step into it carefully and zip it up at the back. Adjust the straps and the bodice to fit you well. As for care, store the dress in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight to prevent color fading. If it gets dirty, it's best to take it to a professional dry - cleaner. When measuring for custom size, use a soft measuring tape and measure yourself while wearing undergarments similar to what you'll wear with the dress. Make sure to measure at the fullest parts of your bust, waist, and hips for accurate results. Also, double - check your measurements before sending them to us.